Older women dating younger men quotes
I'm 58 and my girlfriend is 8 years younger than me, which doesn't seem like much of a difference physically... Of course, that depends on the health and biological age of the people. I was beginning to believe that because of this, men gravitated toward girls 20 years thier juniour or even more. If hes old enough to be her dad then im a bit grossed out and convinced he must be a pedophile of some sort.
To be honest though, I'm seeing more men date women 20 years younger then them. Maybe thats a bit harsh or "closed" minded but really i put the same belief on women dating men 20 years younger as well.
The takeaway Most important in choosing a wife, of course is compatibility: sexually, interpersonally, in values, plus whether they're kind and, of course, that you love each other: You feel great just being in a room with that person, you put each other on a pedestal, and are pleased to do things for that person.I knew in my heart that marrying my husband was a good fit.I see a lot of people in life doing what they "should" do and not honoring their true selves.My rule of thumb is, if the person im with could technicaly have concieved a child the same as me then they are too old and if I, by age, could have concieved a child the same age as the younger prospect then he is to young. Some people in excellent health are biologically 10 years younger than their average age peers. Assuming two adults, the older person's age, divided by 2, plus 7.That means a man cannot be older then 12 years or younger then 12 years. I often find the people saying age is just a number to be somewhat frilly nilly. But i do feel there should be some guidelines when it comes to age differences. And some are easily 10 years older than their actual age, especially if they are overweight, smoke, drink, don't exercise, and eat crap. If the younger party in question is below that age, walk away.
In contrast, if he had married someone five years older than him, they're more likely to be health peers and to fade away together.